Heart Space #49: Guiding Principles


This should be the last post with regards to the mind bogging question that has been lingering on my mind for so long. I think to start with, one decision must always be based trying to achieve the best outcome. However, the definition of 'best' itself, is up to million ways of interpretation. I shall define how I see it. A best outcome is where it is a fair compromise on all stakeholders and yet meet the intended objectives. It's never possible for a complete win-win situation, someone else must lose out.

So this is what is fair.
1. Minimal disruption to Faith school
2. Letting the wife do whatever she wants or decided
3. Best situation for any unforeseen circumstances that may develop over the coming months.
4. I am still 'allowed' to take the B job if I want.

So these parameters constrict the options left. It's either take B job with limited visits & lengthy time away; or
immediately seek alternatives for a local job. The choice is clear.

Not the best 'feel' about the choice though... but it has to be done.